Let’s talk about the circus.
You’re all watching it. You’re all clapping. And I’m sitting here, the only one pointing at the clowns and telling you the tent is on fire.
Another day, another “iconic clapback” from a celebrity who can’t handle the very game they’ve been playing for decades.
Mary J. Blige. A voice that defined a generation. Now, reduced to dropping F-bombs because someone had the audacity to look at the chainmail corset she chose to wear on national television.
Let me be crystal clear, because the world is drowning in this pathetic syrup of fake empowerment.
You do not get to parade your body as the main event and then cry foul when people notice the parade.
This isn’t about “ageism.” This isn’t about “the male gaze.” This is about basic cause and effect. It’s about accountability.
You are a role model. You have spent 30 years building a legacy on soul and raw talent. Your fans look up to you. So when you, at 54 years old, decide your primary promotional tool is a leather-clad, thigh-high boot-wearing spectacle, you have made a conscious decision. You have shifted the focus.
You have decided that the most powerful thing you have to offer in this moment is not your legendary voice, not your wisdom, not your experience—but your ass in a corset.
And then you have the sheer, unmitigated gall to get offended when people talk about your ass in the corset?
Spare me the high horse.
“Turn off the TV if you don’t like it!” she says. A brilliant business strategy, I’m sure. Tell your audience to stop consuming your content. Pure genius.
Here’s the real, unfiltered truth that nobody in this soft, simpering world has the balls to say:
If you want to be respected for your talent, dress like someone who demands respect for their talent.
It is that simple.
You cannot have it both ways. You cannot monetize and leverage the sexualized image and then retreat to the moral high ground of “artistry” when the conversation becomes uncomfortable. That is the game of a charlatan.
And let’s cut the crap about “natural beauty” and “aging gracefully.” We are not fools. We have eyes. The sudden, sculpted curves, the tightness of skin that defies five decades of life—this is not the work of kale and Pilates. This is the work of a surgeon’s knife and a chemist’s lab. This is Ozempic and silicone. It’s the open secret of Hollywood.
And there is no issue with that! Do what you want with your body. It’s your temple; remodel it with a wrecking ball for all I care.
But do not—I repeat, DO NOT—stand there with a face and body curated by modern science, posing in explicitly sexualized clothing, and then pretend you’re above the “demeaning comments.” You are actively participating in and benefiting from the very system you’re pretending to protest.
You invited the gaze. You sold the ticket. Don’t be shocked when the audience shows up to watch.
Real power isn’t telling people to “turn off the TV.” Real power is not needing them to turn it on in the first place. Real power is walking into a room in a suit, fully clothed, and having everyone lean in because of the gravity of your mind and the weight of your accomplishments.
This performance of “unbothered” is the most bothered thing I’ve ever seen. It’s the tantrum of someone who wants the attention but can’t handle the consequences.
So here’s my clapback, since we’re all doing them:
Grow up.
Own your choices. You wanted the attention? You got it. Stop whining. If you want the conversation to be about your talent, then make it about your talent. Put on a powerful, elegant outfit. Speak about your craft. Let your work be the spectacle.
Otherwise, admit you’re playing the same game as every other Instagram thot, you just have a better soundtrack.
The choice is yours. But you don’t get to choose both.
Now stop the nonsense and get back to work.
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You cannot have it both ways. You cannot monetize and leverage the sexualized image and then retreat to the moral high ground of artistry when the conversation becomes uncomfortable. That is the game of a charlatan.
